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The Hidden World: Part 1

Part 1 of a chapter of Reb Yaakov and Varda Branfman's new book
The Hidden World: Challenge, Adventure, and Pleasure in Giving
published by the Kest-Lebowitz Jewish Heritage and Roots Library, Jerusalem, 1999
reprinted here with permission of the author and publisher

There is a world that exists besides the world we know. It’s a world where every instance and every happening presents itself as an opportunity to perform a kindness for someone, and almost every object is a possible vehicle of kindness. The person who lives in that world has experienced a paradigm shift, a reprogramming, an awakening to the importance of giving to others and using the things at his disposal for giving.

Think of the average person who has just finished reading a good book. The book is returned to the bookshelf, and the reader relishes a feeling of satisfaction, knowing that he can read it again whenever the spirit moves him.

Now, consider a person who lives in our world of kindness. He chooses to dwell in a state of mind where the book he owns is an object to benefit others. He makes it available to anyone who wishes to borrow it and thereby enables them to receive the same pleasure and enlightenment that he enjoyed while reading it. In the world of kindness, an object such as a book has the potential to benefit hundreds of people. They don’t have to purchase it in order to receive the pleasure it affords.

Now consider all the other things, like books, that can be shared with others — cassettes, musical instruments, beds, chairs, tables, plates, clothing, food items, and the list is growing from minute to minute as the people who live in the world of kindness discover more goods and services they can give and lend.

This must sound like a utopian dream. How can such a world exist when we are so busy competing for jobs, amassing fortunes, and trying to carve out our piece of the pie? First, take a deep breath. Imagine that there is plenty for everyone. We don’t have to jostle our way in that line in order to keep our footing. Perhaps we can all win, and not just one of us be the winner and the rest of us the losers. G-d has certainly designed the world with enough for everyone, and we can become partners with Him by using our resources to help others.

The consequences are mind-boggling. It changes the whole direction of life. When you are navigating through life, you are looking for totally different landmarks than most people. You are looking for opportunities that other people ignore or don’t even see because they haven’t developed the eyes to see them.

You are living in a world where material objects have no value in themselves; their value stems from their ability to benefit people and not only the people who own them. In the world of kindness, people, not things, take priority. It’s a revolutionary world, and it exists in the here and now.

Everyone can learn to master the art of doing kindness. A person doesn’t need special qualifications like a guaranteed yearly income or a diploma from an Ivy League university. There is no admission price and no specified visiting hours. It is a precious opportunity that belongs to everyone at all times and in all circumstances. A poor person who is a giver, according to his abilities, doesn’t see his own poverty because his pleasure in giving is endless. His little house can be filled with a special quality of light and happiness that can’t be found in some palatial homes full of luxurious furnishings.

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